Both Yara Zaya and her mother-in-law Gwen Eymard have been criticized and praised following the recent episode of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? and viewers are now weighing in on Gwen's choice to offer Yara parenting advice. The wife of Jovi Dufren is learning to navigate parenting solo while Jovi's underwater mechanic job keeps him away for extended periods. While some find Gwen to be Yara's saving grace, others think she needs to let Yara parent on her own. 90 Day Fiancé fans weighed in with their views on whether mom-shaming was occurring.
The recent tension occurred when Jovi and Yara decided to throw a Ukrainian Christmas festivity so that Jovi could reconnect with his family and celebrate after he returned from a lengthy work trip. Gwen and Jovi's cousins joined the couple at their new home in the suburbs outside of New Orleans. Yara made the controversial choice to kick out Jovi's relatives at an early hour because she wanted to put baby Mylah to bed. Gwen was shocked by the move and thought that Yara should have acted differently. Many viewers voiced that Yara had behaved rudely, though others thought her move was justified since Jovi's family had insulted her food and advised her about how to parent her child.
One viewer brought up a different point of view on Reddit. The user expressed that Yara was not being mom-shamed by Gwen in a lengthy post. "Idk who needs to hear this, but experienced mothers offering advice to new moms when they appear to be struggling is NOT mom shaming," the user announced. They added that Gwen was not being patronizing, but that she was trying to help out her daughter-in-law since Gwen had experience raising two children. Some commenters agreed that mothers should help each other, but that Gwen could be offering more helpful advice that didn't step on Yara's toes. "What I think is important is to tell Yara that the way she is feeling is normal. Hormones are crazy for a year or so after you have a baby. Not wanting to leave your baby is totally natural for a mother," one commenter wrote.
Viewers emphasized that Yara should have her feelings normalized, since she wasn't behaving out of line for her reluctance to leave Mylah behind. "Exactly! Yara is a normal mother. I understand her feelings about leaving her baby," one commenter wrote. Others agreed that Jovi should not pressure Yara to leave Mylah or feel bad about her attachment to her baby. "Yes and no mother should be made to feel guilty for not wanting to leave their baby who is just a few months old. The baby has no concept except that the one constant they know just disappears. It's cruel," another viewer agreed. While some agreed that Gwen was trying to help Yara, others added that parenting advice has changed significantly over the past few decades and what might have worked for older parents doesn't necessarily apply to younger ones.
Overall, it appears that viewers are still divided over whether or not Yara or Gwen was behaving properly and which woman was more at fault for the conflict. Gwen is often praised as one of the best family members in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise since she always steps up to support Yara and even defended her on social media following the drama. While Yara has polarized some fans and angered others with her bratty actions, she is still seeing her popularity rise. Yara gained the most Instagram followers so far out of the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 6 cast. Many fans believe she is destined to become a franchise staple- whether or not that is a good thing for viewers.
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